Jeanie Vetter, LCSW
EFT Marriage Counseling Specialist & EMDR Certified/IFS Therapy for Adults
Take this moment to congratulate yourself on taking the first step in your emotional transformation.
It takes courage to start looking for support. Change begins quietly. Finding the right therapist is no easy feat and just getting here is a big first step.
“My life's work has been dedicated to making sense of emotional pain and the complexities of relationships. I support couples and individuals looking to emerge from stifling, old patterns and to transform emotional pain into fuel for deeper, more connected relationships.”
You don't have to figure it out alone.
Couples Therapy
Helping couples address challenges, work through transitions, strengthen their connection and provide strategies for:
Communication, Conflict & Repair
High-conflict relationships seeking healthier communication
Persistent resentment and threat of divorce
Healing from the trauma of betrayal, infidelity,
or trust ruptures
Emotional labor disparities
Intimacy, Connection & Sexual Health
Loss of emotional and physical intimacy
Sexual inadequacy or erectile dysfunction
Differences, Life Stages & Partnership Alignment
Inter-racial, intercultural, interfaith conflicts
Communication challenges within neurodiverse partnerships
Adjustment to parenthood, multiple children or parenting teens
Empty nest transitions
Preparation for marriage or long-term commitment
Individual Therapy
Supporting individuals heal emotional wounds, navigate new life chapters, and overcome struggles related to:
Emotional Regulation, Mental Health & Self-Worth
Managing stress, anxiety, hyper-vigilance, depression, self-doubt or low self-esteem
Low self-esteem, confidence & self-compassion
Trauma, Attachment & Emotional Healing
Processing past trauma, attachment wounding and unresolved pain
Betrayal, infidelity or trust ruptures
Feelings of inadequacy, shame or carrying emotional burdens
Family estrangement & grief
Life Transitions, Identity & Relationship Patterns
Pregnancy, Perinatal Mood Disorders & Postpartum Issues
Intergenerational trauma
Repeating negative patterns across partnerships, family dynamics or friendships
Identity related to race, gender, culture or religious themes
Caretaking ill or aging parents
How do I choose a therapist?
A series of short videos that answer common questions have been created for you. See the first in the series below.
Telehealth sessions available for all residents of California.
In-person appointments available in Oceanside, CA.
Jeanie’s Values & Commitments
Staying objective, non-judgmental & accepting
Being fully present during our sessions
Working at your pace and attuning to your needs
To create a secure and accepting space
To encourage collaboration and feedback
Continuously working on my own growth to best serve you
To set confident boundaries
To have clear communication
To prioritize your best interest; including referring you to another therapist if either of us feels it would be a better fit
“When your heart is broken, you plant the seeds in the cracks and pray for rain.”
— - Andrea Gibson
