Jeanie Vetter, LCSW
Carlsbad Marriage Counselor & Trauma Specialist
Specializing in Interracial & Multicultural Couples, Trauma, EMDR & Intensives
Taking the first step toward support takes courage.
Change begins quietly. Finding the right therapist isn’t easy, and getting here is already a meaningful first step.
“My life's work has been dedicated to making sense of emotional pain and the complexities of relationships. I support couples and individuals looking to emerge from stifling, old patterns and to transform emotional pain into fuel for deeper, more connected relationships.”
You don't have to figure it out alone.
Marriage & Couples Counseling
I specialize in helping couples break painful patterns, strengthen emotional connection, and navigate the challenges that can strain a relationship. I have particular expertise working with interracial and multicultural couples navigating differences in culture, family, identity, communication, and expectations.
Communication, Conflict & Repair
High-conflict relationships seeking healthier communication
Persistent resentment and threat of divorce
Healing from the trauma of betrayal, infidelity,
or trust ruptures
Emotional labor disparities
Intimacy, Connection & Sexual Health
Loss of emotional and physical intimacy
Sexual inadequacy or erectile dysfunction
Cultural Differences, Parenting & Life Transitions
Interracial, intercultural, interfaith conflicts
Communication challenges within neurodiverse partnerships
Adjustment to parenthood, multiple children or parenting teens
Empty nest transitions
Preparation for marriage or long-term commitment
Individual Therapy
I support individuals who are ready to understand the ways past experiences, relationships, and emotional patterns have shaped how they see themselves and navigate the world. Together, we can explore the roots of emotional pain, develop greater self-understanding and self-compassion, and create meaningful change that allows you to move forward with greater freedom and connection.
Trauma, Attachment & Emotional Healing
Processing past trauma, attachment wounding and unresolved pain
Betrayal, infidelity or trust ruptures
Feelings of inadequacy, shame or carrying emotional burdens
Family estrangement & grief
Emotional Regulation, Mental Health & Self-Worth
Managing stress, anxiety, hyper-vigilance, depression, self-doubt or low self-esteem
Building confidence, self-compassion and a stronger sense of self
Life Transitions, Identity & Relationship Patterns
Pregnancy, Perinatal Mood Disorders & Postpartum Issues
Intergenerational trauma
Repeating negative patterns across partnerships, family dynamics or friendships
Exploring identity, race, gender, culture and religious beliefs
Caretaking ill or aging parents
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EMDR & IFS Intensives
Go deeper. Get unstuck. Create meaningful change in a focused, immersive experience.
IFS/EMDR Intensives offer a focused, immersive alternative to traditional weekly therapy, with a dedicated full day to focus on the issues that matter most to you. Intensives can be used for deeper trauma processing, relationship patterns, anxiety, life transitions, or other areas where you're ready for more focused work. They can be stand-alone or complement ongoing therapy, and each day is tailored to your individual goals using IFS, EMDR, or an integrated approach.
How do I choose a therapist?
Finding the right therapist can make all the difference. Here are some things to consider when looking for the right fit for you.
Telehealth sessions available to clients throughout California.
In-person marriage counseling and therapy in Carlsbad.
Serving Carlsbad, Oceanside & North County San Diego
Jeanie’s Values & Commitments
Staying objective, non-judgmental & accepting
Being fully present during our sessions
Working at your pace and attuning to your needs
To create a secure and accepting space
To encourage collaboration and feedback
Continuously working on my own growth to best serve you
To set confident boundaries
To have clear communication
To prioritize your best interest; including referring you to another therapist if either of us feels it would be a better fit
“When your heart is broken, you plant the seeds in the cracks and pray for rain.”
— - Andrea Gibson
